My Baby Answered My Vibrator

It doesn't get any more mortifying than this.

By Jen Simon — Last updated on Mar 04, 2023

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Everyone knows that nightstand drawers are sacrosanct. They’re for your unmentionables.

I don’t mean panties; I mean things you need next to the bed for a reason. Ok, fine: they’re for sex stuff.

Nightstand drawers are for condoms, lube, handcuffs, clothespins, or whatever else the ladies are inspired to purchase in the era of Fifty Shades of Grey. (I haven’t read it – am I missing something? Jumper cables, maybe?) Anyway, those drawers are also home to many a woman’s best friend: her vibrator.

I’m not shy about the fact that I have a vibrator or two.

For a while, I fashioned myself something of a Vibrator Fairy. For my sister’s 21st birthday, I sent her a care package full of fun things including, yup, a vibrator. The saleswoman at Toyland, an institution on the Lower East Side, recommended a non-threatening introduction piece, which is why my sister celebrated adulthood with a buzzing, pink, plastic little bear.

I even mailed a vibrator overseas once! After college, my best friend flew to South Korea to teach English.

She went by herself, didn’t speak Korean, and didn’t think she’d have any potential suitors for a while.

So I did what any good girlfriend does — I went vibrator shopping! I sent her the funniest, yet still, the most usable thing I could find: a small, vibrating, hot pink dildo named Jelly Jr.

She was thrilled with her new boyfriend, er, toy. She joked about taking him out to drinks or buying him a jaunty little hat. I’m pretty sure that had Instagram been invented then, Jelly Jr would have had his own account, littered with pictures of him posing at tourist sites and taking selfies in bars.

That’s generally how I approach sex and sex accouterments: laughing.

Sex is fun. Sex is funny. These kinds of things don’t generally don’t embarrass me.

Until last week when something not merely embarrassing, but outright wrong happened. Something that didn't just break down the barrier separating Mom Jen and Person Jen, but stomped all over it.

I’m a stay-at-home mom. While my 5-year-old son goes to school, my 18-month-old son is home with me all day, every day. He’s my shadow. Wherever I go, he goes. One morning when I was finally getting around to brushing my teeth, my son wandered out of the bathroom and into my bedroom.

Right now he’s in a phase where the only thing he likes better than shutting doors is opening them.

First, he headed to my dresser to open and shut the doors. Then he moved on, shuffling to my nightstand.